Q to the ladies: What gets you turned on?

[Anonymous]

Guy here, I am pretty much always ready to go. This is definitely not the case for my partner. (who is amazing).

Whenever I see an attractive woman, particularly in revealing clothes, my mind immediately goes to sex. It's just how my brain is wired! I think most guys are this way.

I've never been able to figure out what gets women turned on indpendently. What makes you horny?

Most interested in responses from women in 40s!

[Anonymous]

I’m a woman, late 40s. For me, it’s a matter of chemistry. I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, and we both just want each other all the time. He says that we are like magnets and rabbits - just can’t put our hands off each other, and it’s never enough, sometimes after 4-5 times a day.

[Anonymous]

Men who have excellent posture. Think Patrick Swayze in Dirty Dancing. Men who are kind when nobody's watching them. Men who have control over their emotions. Men who can cook (and know part of cooking is cleaning up afterwards).

[Anonymous]

Men like my Babyface im 44 though but no problem attracting men 18 to 50. I like my boyfriend's intelligence and he's funny tall hot he's not fat and he has body hair but not in excess. I like his hands because they're big in comparison to my small slim ones. I like how he dresses never dresses down but always in shirts pants and reminds me of some golden age actor. He was very tuned on when we met and I wasnt wearing anything very revealing leggings boots hoodie but then again he'd already seen me nude a bunch by then.

[Anonymous]

Good listener. Don't be mean or rude. Be in control of your emotions. Brain is women's biggest sex organ.
If you meant, what can you do it bed, then start with a good massage perhaps. Don't go down is she is not in the mood.
Don't expect her to be in the mood too often. Perhaps her brain is not wired like that.
I have hidden under a bed from a partner and I have had a partner I couldn't wait to eat up.
It was about how they treated me. Well, the other one also smelled good, had the nicest skin, and was good in bed. Always ready to go, which I took personally as I must be hot.
I was very horny from 44-46. I'm guessing because of hormonal changes. And then soon after, it just shrank. It's so sad.

[Anonymous]

I am a woman and I am always ready to go (I don’t think it’s my hormones in my 40s, I have always been like this). Words turn me on, and confidence too. When my husband tells me he wants me, that I’m sexy, etc. etc. that’s pretty much all I need.

[Anonymous]

Choreplay
Muscles

[Anonymous]

I like a massage and a foot rub and a slow approach. Don't jump on me like horn dog humping me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like a massage and a foot rub and a slow approach. Don't jump on me like horn dog humping me.

This. I’m married, but I am pretty much never just turned on walking around. I have to actually be touched to get turned on.

[Anonymous]

All you can eat breadsticks at the Olive Garden. All women want this.

[Anonymous]

Choreplay is king. Do some chores so that I am not tired and resentful of you when we get in bed. If I am I not cussing you out in my mind you have a better chance of getting laid.

[Anonymous]

Don't dump on me all day and all week and be laying in bed with your dick pointed at me like I owe you something after everything you haven't done.

[Anonymous]

Flirting still gets me going. I love teasing banter with a serious/stern guy. The annoyed looks they give me make me know they want to ‘set me straight’ if you get my drift.

[Anonymous]

Intellect and humor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Choreplay is king. Do some chores so that I am not tired and resentful of you when we get in bed. If I am I not cussing you out in my mind you have a better chance of getting laid.

I think that some men think this means that women literally get aroused by watching men do chores.

It’s more like having the chores done means that I can get into a headspace to get aroused if we start kissing and touching.