Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like dogs perfectly fine, but I don’t get why it seems to be such a thing for Americans to be so enamored of dogs.
It seems like it’s more acceptable to say that you don’t like children than admit that you don’t care for dogs. This doesn’t seem to be as prevalent in other countries. Why is this?
There are lots of people who hate them.
Why?
I've been bitten by a dog.
I do not want your dog approaching me, when I'm minding my business on the right side of a path or sidewalk. Yes, I know most dogs won't bite, but I'm not psychic and do NOT want to be sniffed or approached by your random dog, who I do not know.
Think of it like this - have you ever been sexually assaulted? Obviously most men in public are decent men, but do you want random men who you do not know, to just come right up and invade your personal space? Of course you don't. Because like me with dogs, you're not psychic about total random men.
Don't forget the barking, peeing on people's yards, leaving of dog poop bags, bringing your dog with you everywhere inappropriately, etc. SO many dog owners are beyond rude. I would argue that they are in the majority.
So many dog owners refuse to acknowledge that past experiences with dogs might make someone *justifiably* wary of dogs, and that's fine.
I was attacked by a dog about 20 years ago, the [poorly trained, large] dog of an acquaintance. The dog was surprised by me and came at me very fast with teeth bared. Fortunately my brother [240 lb athlete at the time] was a few feet away and had an incredibly fast reaction and basically through his entire body on the dog. The dog managed only one grazing bite of my ankle, though it did draw blood. My brother wound up with multiple bites. He and another man there managed to basically shove/kick the dog through a doorway and get the door closed. It was terrifying. Had I been alone with the dog, he definitely was capable of killing me, and could also have permanently disabled me or disfigured me.
I don't even hate dogs after that experience, but I have a wariness of larger dogs -- basically anything over 40lbs, and even a 30-40 lb dog can make me nervous if they are muscular and a breed with a strong jaw. I'm okay around smaller dogs, and can even be okay (not super comfortable but not freaking out) around larger dogs if I have a chance to get to know them while they are leashed and well controlled and they can see I'm not a threat and I can see the same.
But I cannot tell you how many times I've told a dog owner that I'm nervous around dogs because of a bad experience, and they will instantly get annoyed with me and tell me their dog is well behaved and would never hurt anyone. Like, okay, great. I have a totally normal and reasonable aversion to dogs because I once saw my life flash before my eyes as an 80 lb dog leapt at me, teeth first. It is so ridiculous that anyone would expect me to be like "oh, I'm sure this dog I've never met before isn't like that, it is fine for him to bound up to me unleashed."
By the way, this dog who attacked me wasn't some trained attack dog. He was a large shelter dog who had been adopted by a lackadaisical college student, who never trained him and often ignored/neglected him. He was aggressive because he had no idea how else to be. Dogs will revert to instinctual, aggressive behavior if it's not socialized and trained out of them, and if they do not learn to defer to their owner. You HAVE to train dogs. It's unreal to me how many dog owners don't understand this, or think only "bad" dogs need to be trained. I sometimes think you should have to get a license to adopt anything other than a small dog.